
Someone recently asked me 'WHY?'
Why had we decided to live in France?
Difficult question.
For us, it started as a holiday love affair with the country. Every possible half term or school holiday was spent somewhere in France, exploring a new region or revisiting old haunts. We stayed in funny little gites in the Lot Valley, in timber clad cottages in Normandy, in small hotels and grand Chambres d'hotes in Alsace, and in a mountain house in the Pyrenees.
We decided to see if we could buy a small cottage just for holidays, in Brittany as that was easily reachable from Cornwall . We came over for a five day house hunt, and found just what we wanted, on the edge of a small village. In those days, once you had signed the papers there was no going back. Nowadays the buyer is given seven days to back out of the purchase. It's a much safer system than in UK.
Our cottage needed renovating........what didnt in those days? We were younger and fitter, and had a small caravan that we left in the garden. Every possible holiday was spent in the cottage, getting to know our lovely neighbours (who hadnt met many English before), and working with local artisans to restore the lovely longere that we had bought. At that time there were only two British families in the village......now there are twenty plus, though many are trying to leave due to the huge fall in income with exchange rates being what they are.
When we retired we decided to take the plunge and move out to France permanently, to be part of the wonderful health system and to integrate as far as we could with the community. Fortunately my French is pretty adequate, though I have learned so much from listening.
What do we miss? Of course there are downsides. I'm a realist. There are too many ex patriots who denigrate England and think their new country is perfection. Nowhere is perfection.
We miss the English habits of dropping in for Coffee, for a quick informal lunch. We miss books, as does everyone. Now after many years, the supermarkets are beginning to stock not only English food but books also, at a price. We miss our families and our old friends too, especially in times of illness or trouble. We are so fortunate to have a thriving Anglican Church not far away, where we can be regular communicants and take part in the fellowship and the worship..
The English have begun to 'colonise' France. There are English shops, tearooms, we have English Television, many more French people speak English, they say they have to as there are so many English needing help with buying, with translating etc.
I wonder what the French really think of the invasion? They are so polite, they say they like the fact that the English have renovated so many of the old properties that otherwise might have fallen down. But I wonder................